Esther Perel, who is writing a sequel to “Mating in Captivity”, shares her thoughts on non-monogamy in modern marriage

9780060753641_custom-582440002f32681e6b81be995faa44e94899f9db-s6-c30“Very often we don’t go elsewhere because we are looking for another person. We go elsewhere because we are looking for another self. It isn’t so much that we want to leave the person we are with as we want to leave the person we have become.”

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