The average man is more interested in a woman who is interested in him than he is in a woman with beautiful legs.
And if you possess both the interest and the legs?
As a female, you get indulged. A lot. But it has to work both ways. Quality males see this and enjoy the rewards but from what I observe online a lot of males are clearly spending a lot of time alone. And I wonder if they know why. Lack of empathy and reciprocation are reaching new levels if you look around. Think Tinder et al.