“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.”
Rumi
Compare the sensual eye to the
hand of one that felt the elephant.
The eye of outward sense is as the palm of a hand,
The whole of the object is not grasped in the palm.
The sea itself is one thing, the foam another;
Neglect the foam, and regard […]
As promised I will answer questions here that I’m asked a lot. I’ll add one a day… not necessarily in order of importance:
Why ‘tantriclens’?
Well, I would prefer to use my real name but given the nature of my blog and how stupid and unforgiving society can be towards a sexually liberated female, it’s just not […]
“Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a person’s sexual choice is the result and sum of their fundamental convictions. Tell me what a person finds sexually attractive and I will tell you their entire philosophy of life. Show me the person […]
“…For me, your beautiful work illuminates the myriad variations of the human experience. It’s called Art.”
Well, thank you Chaz.
I also want to thank the many people from all over the world who praise my blog.
Usually people elect to email me rather than comment on a post here and that’s cool… but if I’m asked a […]
Sex at its best is an art in itself.
The camera watches… sometimes indifferently, sometimes jealously but it doesn’t judge.
It always wants more.
Amanda
I love my job ;-)
We should be focusing our criticism on the capitalist power structures which turn women’s bodies into forms of currency, instead of ‘shaming them for doing exactly what they’ve been told they have to do in order to be worth anything at all. Perhaps it’s time we stopped fixating on photographs and started looking at the […]
“It is the function of art to renew our perception. What we are familiar with we cease to see. The writer shakes up the familiar scene, and, as if by magic, we see a new meaning in it.”
Anais Nin
There are women who wonder if their complete absence of interest in porn is normal. Other women wonder if their interest in graphic, hardcore porn is normal. Both are common. The only variation that seems to be relatively rare is for women to have a strong, abiding erotic interest in softcore, “female friendly” porn.
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“Our erotic knowledge empowers us, becomes a lens through which we scrutinize all aspects of our existence, forcing us to evaluate those aspects honestly in terms of their relative meaning within our lives. And this is a grave responsibility, projected from within each of us, not to settle for the convenient, the shoddy, the conventionally […]
“There may be more beautiful times, but this one is ours.”
Jean-Paul Sartre
