‘I don’t think being monogamous is a natural instinct for human beings, but it doesn’t mean I don’t believe in monogamy or true love. I believe in finding a soul mate.
Monogamy can be hard work for some people. I don’t think it applies to everybody, and I don’t think a lot of people can do […]
Excellent short video here…..I take photographs, I don’t write poetry.
But the process behind their creation is similar.
You do it with all senses aware, it isn’t just about light and vision.
Amanda xx
It’s not literally true that women in pornography are thought of as inanimate and unfeeling objects; if they were, then they would just as effectively be depicted as unconscious or unresponsive, as opposed to (as is more often the case) aroused and compliant.
Also, as the philosophers Martha Nussbaum and Leslie Green have pointed out, being […]
Deep in the core of our being there are the unconscious natural processes built in by evolution. These deep unconscious processes propel us to procreate or strut or think in certain ways, often impulsively.
Read more:
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/14/opinion/brooks-the-deepest-self.html?_r=0
The point for me is to create relationships based on deeper and more real notions of trust. So that love becomes defined not by sexual exclusivity, but by actual respect, concern, commitment to act with kind intentions, accountability for our actions, and a desire for mutual growth.
Dean Spade
Of all sexual aberrations, perhaps the most peculiar is chastity.
Rimy de Gourmont
Love the sound of rain.
There are quieter nature sounds available on youtube (or louder, depending on your mood) but I find this one played low in the background makes for a lovely atmosphere for writing.
And sexing, of course!
“The issue isn’t porn, but the complete lack in our society of an open, healthy, honest, truthful dialogue around sex in the real world….”
From an article by Cindy Gallop.
Read more:
http://www.wired.co.uk/news/archive/2013-08/14/cindy-gallop-open-letter
“The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings. ”
Audre Lorde
A new study confirms that couples, specifically, actually “share” memories. In addition to sharing them, partners who have a close and healthy intimacy even have far more vivid memories when they’re together than when they’re apart. Basically, the more you and your S.O. have sex, the more awesome your memories will […]
