Facebook is annoying. So is leaving….

The social network has become too many different services to be replaced outright or even abandoned. It’s the key we use to unlock services, the address book we use to find people, the billboard we rely on to self-promote. Mark Zuckerberg has consistently pursued a strategy of cloning and acquiring apps in a push to […]

Life

One of the pleasures of working from my home studio is I can stay naked if I choose – well, at least until company drops by, of course.

Even then….

I’m amazed by the number of people who differentiate between work and play. To me it’s living two separate lives.

I’ll never get it.

Amanda x

 

Self-shot Girls

I’m fascinated by the number of young women who photograph themselves naked in front of mirrors and then upload the images to the web.

They appear to be the willing agents of their own representation –  faces often visible, happily creating evidence of their existence in this digital age.

Are they […]

Can oysters make you horny?

Casanova, the legendary lover, “was rumoured to eat 50 oysters every morning to fuel his crazy sexual escapades,” and the Romans were documenting its randy effect on women as far back as the second century AD.

But is this effect real, or merely the result of some massive, self-perpetuating delusion?

Some have speculated that the oyster’s reputation […]

6 Biggest Myths About Women Who Have Lots of Sex

Myth: Men are Wired to Have a Lot of Sex, Women to be Monogamous

Fact: There are multiple examples throughout history and in modern times where women, free from patriarchal dogma, have  sex with multiple partners or even multiple husbands. If the females who have a lot of sex were limited to depraved, damaged or […]

The ten ways men text women…

According to writer and life coach Jeff Wilser, despite the fact that we are ten years into the Texting Revolution, most guys still haven’t mastered the fine art of text tone.

Texting, Wilser writes in New York Magazine, is an awkward medium.

Stripped of the nuance of eye contact and body language, he says, there’s […]

Breaking the fourth wall…

In theatre ‘The Fourth Wall’ is an imaginary wall separating the audience from the action on the stage.

Lovers looking at the camera as they fuck, even playing to the camera – acknowledging that they have an audience – has the effect of “breaking the fourth wall”. To involve your viewers more deeply in the intensity […]

Anonymity

An important question to consider if you decide to film yourself and your partner(s) having sex is : what happens to the footage you create?

Even if you enjoy sharing personal details with the world on sites like Facebook, it’s unlikely you’d want explicit images and videos of you circulating out of your control.

Of course, if […]

Experiences from online dating sites…

Once upon a time…  out of curiousity I posted an ad on an online dating site.

The experience left me underwhelmed. I eventually had to post the following on my profile.

Why do people become so unintelligent when they use new media?

Especially where sex is involved.

I wrote…

Images and text exist for a reason. To communicate always, sometimes […]

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